Referring to friendship, we often focus on building relationships with others and we always forget the essential first step:being friends of ourselves. This is the most important first step if you want to have good relationships with others. How can you be friends of others if you are not friends of yourselves?

　　說到友誼，我們經常注重的是與別人建立關系，而且我們總是忘了基本的第一步：成為自己的朋友。如果你想與別人有良好的關系，這是最重要的第一步。如果你不是你自己的朋友，你怎么能成為別人的朋友?

　　To be a friend of yourself, you should always care about yourself and be kind to yourself. To be a friend of yourself can help you better understand your friends around you and bring more happiness to you and your friends. Others may not know every thing about you and they cant always pat attention to you, so you have to do these things yourselves. You must be good to yourself when your friends are not around you. Sometimes, its yourself who can pull you out from trouble or upset.

　　要成為自己的朋友你應該經常關心自己，善待自己。成為自己的朋友能幫助你更好的理解你身邊的朋友，給你和你的朋友帶來更多快樂。別人可能不了解關于你的一切，而且他們不能總是注意到你，所以你必須自己做這些事。當你朋友不在你身邊的時候你必須善待自己。有時候，只有你自己能幫你走出麻煩或苦惱。

　　Referring to friendship, we often focus on building relationships with others and we always forget the essential first step:being friends of ourselves. This is the most important first step if you want to have good relationships with others. How can you be friends of others if you are not friends of yourselves?

　　說到友誼，我們經常注重的是與別人建立關系，而且我們總是忘了基本的第一步：成為自己的朋友。如果你想與別人有良好的關系，這是最重要的第一步。如果你不是你自己的朋友，你怎么能成為別人的朋友?

　　To be a friend of yourself, you should always care about yourself and be kind to yourself. To be a friend of yourself can help you better understand your friends around you and bring more happiness to you and your friends. Others may not know every thing about you and they cant always pat attention to you, so you have to do these things yourselves. You must be good to yourself when your friends are not around you. Sometimes, its yourself who can pull you out from trouble or upset.

　　要成為自己的朋友你應該經常關心自己，善待自己。成為自己的朋友能幫助你更好的理解你身邊的朋友，給你和你的朋友帶來更多快樂。別人可能不了解關于你的一切，而且他們不能總是注意到你，所以你必須自己做這些事。當你朋友不在你身邊的時候你必須善待自己。有時候，只有你自己能幫你走出麻煩或苦惱。